Tuxedo advice ! Make me handsome!

Tuxedo advice ! Make me handsome!

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toppstuff

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13,698 posts

254 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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It is that time of the year again...

I need a new Tux. The old one looks like too many people have vomited on it too many times...

So tomorrow I am going to buy a new Tuxedo/ Dinner suit.

I have a pretty good idea of what I want

BUT

What about the shirt?

I am bored of getting a white shirt, and being a big tall chap I seem to blend with the staff of restaurants/ clubs and look like a bouncer....

Now a friend suggested I try a BLACK shirt. Apparently the bloke who runs Gucci, and George Michael have worn black shirts with a Tux and got away with it...

What does the ever stylish, debonair PH collective think of this ? Or am I making a big mistake, and traditional is best...

I'm just bored of looking like a waiter.

Someone suggested a white Tux like Tom Hanks in Big, but I don't know where to get one of those..

Big_M

5,602 posts

270 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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toppstuff said:
Someone suggested a white Tux like Tom Hanks in Big, but I don't know where to get one of those..
Don't even go there. White Tuxedos are so

How about a funky waistcoat?

toppstuff

Original Poster:

13,698 posts

254 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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Big_M said:

toppstuff said:
Someone suggested a white Tux like Tom Hanks in Big, but I don't know where to get one of those..

Don't even go there. White Tuxedos are so

How about a funky waistcoat?


I always think of that character in the fast show where the office party and waistcoats are concerned...

Dibble

13,025 posts

247 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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Sorry, no.

The "rules" are:

Dinner jacket - single breasted, satin finish lapels.

Trousers - flat fronted, vertical satin stripe down the oustide seam.

Waistcoat - black or white, depending on how formal the do is.

Cummerbund if no waistcoat worn.

No coloured wasitcoat/cummerbund/tie, unless you want to look like a complete tw@...

Tie - black, tie up not clip on/ready made.

Shirt - white, golf ball/marcella, no winged collar, unless you're at Buck House for a "posh" do. Shirt studs and double cuff.

Stiff fronted shirt with separate wing collar/studs if it really is a posh do.

Shoes - plain black Oxfords, properly polished, or "Mess Wellies" (Chelsea boots) if you're military.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

262 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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Do the underpants go over the trousers, or under the trousers?

Pigeon

18,535 posts

253 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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toppstuff said:
I need a new Tux.



PAT COBRA

152 posts

243 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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If you have to ask....... stay in.....

ErnestM

11,621 posts

274 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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ToppStuff old chum...

The classics are the best. Go with white (non wing) collared shirt.

If you are attempting to differentiate yourself from the wait staff, try a different set of studs and cufflinks (in my experience very few wait staff have silver and mother of pearl - they usually have the black plasticy garbage). You might also want to try a nice pocket square as wait staff hardly wear them.

...AS A VERY LAST RESORT you might want to try a patterned waistcoat and/or different colour tie. I would stay with darker colours if you go this route - a nice dar red (burgandy) or dark green.

Also as you are getting a new one, maybe go upscale to a good Brioni, Armani or Zegna. The fit and finish alone would probably make you stand out amongst the unwashed that view their DJ as a uniform...

Just My 0.02

ErnestM

>> Edited by ErnestM on Saturday 4th December 05:29

mechsympathy

54,248 posts

262 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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ErnestM said:
Also as you are getting a new one, maybe go upscale to a good Brioni, Armani or Zegna. The fit and finish alone would probably make you stand out amongst the unwashed that view their DJ as a uniform...


But most waiters won't be wearing a jacket, and you will stand out further if your shirt isn't nylon and practically see through

Harris_I

3,237 posts

266 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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Get yourself a black sherwani and tell them you're Pakistani. That should make you stand out.

top fuel

2,590 posts

260 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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Do what I just did at my Uni Halls Formal last night,

DJ, proper trousers, proper shirt, yadda yadda yadda...


Puma Trainers

A talking point it has to be said!

edit. didn't make sense

>> Edited by top fuel on Saturday 4th December 11:04

toppstuff

Original Poster:

13,698 posts

254 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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Well, purchase haas been made, I'm sorted.

Classic traditional tuxedo ( Hugo Boss - but bought with a sizeable discount - is'nt great that all the shops have over-stocked and putting the sales on already !! )

It has a rather lurid purple lining to provide some individuality, even if others won't see it.

A decent cut, and best of all it fits perfectly right off the peg.

Looks like I am going traditional after all. Still, nice suit or not I'll still look like the big ugly bloke covering the door....

I still think it'll be only hours before some intern drinks too much and vomits on it though. It happened last time....

Now to decide if I go commando or not .....

Thanks for the advice !

v8thunder

27,646 posts

265 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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I personally like occasionally breaking with tradition. I've got 3 'formal' get-ups:

1. The usual double-breasted 'penguin suit', black and white, good for college balls.

2. Higher-collared, single-breasted suit, looks great with a black-with-white-pinstripes shirt I've got. Add a silk bow tie into the mix. The trick is to have the various fabrics the same colour, but different textures and light sensetivity, so the various parts of the suit don't get lost within each other.

3. Tan-coloured Italian moleskin suit with a pale green lining, worn with a matching tie over a dark blue shirt. Really stands out without looking too garish. Also happens to be very, very comfortable. Lighter colours=perfect for hot rooms.

Balmoral Green

41,752 posts

255 months

Saturday 4th December 2004
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Harris_I said:
Get yourself a black sherwani and tell them you're Pakistani. That should make you stand out.


Cool too.

cotty

40,294 posts

291 months

Sunday 5th December 2004
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dont forget to go for a tie that looks like it has been made but is in fact a clip on, then when it gets late you can swap it for the real untied tie you keep in your pocket.

I know someone who has done this.

v8thunder

27,646 posts

265 months

Sunday 5th December 2004
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cotty said:
dont forget to go for a tie that looks like it has been made but is in fact a clip on, then when it gets late you can swap it for the real untied tie you keep in your pocket.

I know someone who has done this.


I know someone who does that every time he wears a DJ.