Turning 30...

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nicecupoftea

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25,313 posts

258 months

Thursday 2nd December 2004
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Bit of a weird mood today.

I turn 30 tomorrow. Keep telling myself it's not old. On the other hand it doesn't really feel young either

vixpy1

42,676 posts

271 months

Thursday 2nd December 2004
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Your old.. I've still got 5 years till then!

ErnestM

11,621 posts

274 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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..it really isn't that bad. I have scars older than you... 30 is the new 20, you know (which means 40 is the new 30 - don't believe me? See Demi Moore in the last Angels movie)

Chin Up!

ErnestM

PS: My 30th was the best birthday of my life - but that's a story for another time...

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

262 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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All downhill now...

And boy...does it accelerate at a rate of knots....

Doomed....y're doomed, I say..........

UKBoB

16,277 posts

272 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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So what are you doing for your Birthday, old boy

Its cool Im sure. Ive spoken to men who say their sex lives started when they were 40, and many women who say the best days of their lives also started at 40+

Life is what you make of it remember! Age brings good things mate, calm, slow, enjoy!

nicecupoftea

Original Poster:

25,313 posts

258 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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Keeping it simple, mates, pub, beer

Unfortunately I have 12 hour works days on Saturday & Sunday

Us oldies take a while to get over our hangovers, don't you know

It could be worse I suppose, I (co-)own a flat, I'm engaged, money isn't great but I get by, and although my career isn't really going anywhere at the moment I know I'm bloody good at what I do.

I just feel quite mortal at the moment My 20th was pretty depressing I seem to remember, but my life and head are both a hell of a lot more sorted now than they were then

billynomates

2,101 posts

243 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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nicecupoftea said:
Bit of a weird mood today.

I turn 30 tomorrow. Keep telling myself it's not old. On the other hand it doesn't really feel young either


30 years old ?

At 50 plus I must be done and dead then.

So you have learnt to use the other hand ..

Dibble

13,025 posts

247 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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30?

Old enough to have learnt from some of your mistakes.

Young enough to survive a few more.

v8thunder

27,646 posts

265 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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Y'see, I turn 21 at the end of next week and it initially scared me, then I bought The World According To Clarkson, and he came up with a very good point which highlights the difference between my parents generation and mine:

"In the olden days you got married in your teens, had children in your twenties, made a few quid in your thirties, enjoyed it in your forties and fifties and then retired in your sixties.
Now you do nothing in your teens, nothing in your twenties and by the time you're 40 you're on the employment scrapheap, a seven-chinned hasbeen with a spent mind and man-breasts. This means you have to cram your whole life into your thirties.
And that's why it passes at 2000mph."

Most uplifting thing I've read all year.

wedg1e

26,891 posts

272 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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When I hit 18, I thought I had all the time in the world.

When I got to 21, I still thought I had penty of time, and any day soon I was going to start getting somewhere.

Soon I reached 30. I knew there was still plenty of time, just couldn't quite figure out what I'd done so far.

Forty. F**K ME IS THAT THE TIME??!!

TheExcession

11,669 posts

257 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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wedg1e said:
When I hit 18, I thought I had all the time in the world.

When I got to 21, I still thought I had penty of time, and any day soon I was going to start getting somewhere.

Soon I reached 30. I knew there was still plenty of time, just couldn't quite figure out what I'd done so far.

Forty. F**K ME IS THAT THE TIME??!!


Like a freight, running down hill with no brakes, just goes faster and faster and faster....

best
Ex

nicecupoftea

Original Poster:

25,313 posts

258 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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Very true!

My dad had wife, 2 kids and mortgage by his late 20s, I can't imagine having kids at the moment, maybe in the next few years.

Most of my friends are around my age, and very few of us own our own places or are married, only have a couple of friends with kids, both older than me. A lot of my friends are still living in student flatshare type situations, but then trying to break into the music business doesn't often leave a lot of cash flying around!

I think it is making me think about using time sensibly. Since I left college in a lot of ways I have been treading water, not going for career opportunities I should have, and just going with the tide. Well that's been 6 years now, so I really need to give myself a kick up the arse and start grabbing onto these opportunities!

(although I'm still not allowed a motorbike )

towman

14,938 posts

246 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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TheExcession said:

Like a freight, running down hill with no brakes, just goes faster and faster and faster....

best
Ex


But if you can hang on for long enough, it can be a wild ride!

TheExcession

11,669 posts

257 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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towman said:

But if you can hang on for long enough, it can be a wild ride!

That's what my old man (70 in February) says as he goes tearing across the Irish country side atop his trusty steed in search cutie wootie ickle foxes.

The bugger does this three times a week - say's he'd do it more if he could find the time - he's realised he needs to cram it in whilst he still can.

Ex

Mikey G

4,784 posts

247 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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Chin up, its only a number

I turned 30 in October, and not done the wife and kids thing yet maybe when i'm 40, i'm having too much fun at the moment

Oh and happy birthday

>> Edited by Mikey G on Friday 3rd December 00:51

towman

14,938 posts

246 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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great attitude. Hope I end up like that.

Oh and please, dont anyone start another foxhunting fight in here! We ran out of glasses last time.

Steve

Racylady

931 posts

240 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY nicecupoftea! Nothing wrong with turning 30. I've had more fun in my 30's than I ever had in my 20's. Like Dibble says:

Dibble said:


Old enough to have learnt from some of your mistakes.

Young enough to survive a few more.


Have a good day!

granville

18,764 posts

268 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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You're right to be concerned.

The best years of your life are behind you and if you didn't optimise them, only grim physical deterioration awaits you and the immiment spectre of Reaper's Grey, looming like a great, dark looming thing on your all-too mortal horizon.

Still, it could be worse: if you were in Logan's Run you'd be well & truly toast by now.



shnozz

28,008 posts

278 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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@ Der

Plotloss

67,280 posts

277 months

Friday 3rd December 2004
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You are as old as the woman you feel...