Is this the end ?
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lazyitus

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19,931 posts

295 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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I keep waking up with bad thoughts.

Sweating in my sleep and shaking as I hold my mug of tea in the morning. Can it be that I'm really considering selling the Griff? :eek:

You see, we've recently acquired a new toy in the shape of a bouncing baby boy. He's ace, he really is but kids being kids, our lives are now changed.

Due to the demands of a new family, my time is spent doing this that and the other at the expense of spending time in my pride and joy giving it some welly. :(

It aint no 3 seater, thats for sure and I'm beginning to wonder whether these past 3 weeks of next to nothing TVR motoring is going to be the pattern for a few years to come.

I'm feeling that the money tied up inside my garage might be better tied up in the family for now? I'm thinking maybe I should get a cheaper TVR, a Wedge or an 'S'? And then I'm thinking how I would pine for my Griffith again once I realised the errors of my ways.

The point of this rambling is that my head is well and truely fucked up with the thought of losing what was once a dream and one which I achieved.

I'm hoping the PH/TVR crew will help me find tranquility inside my head by offering your own thoughts after some consideration of what [i]you'd[/i] do.

jonathant

880 posts

313 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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Same situation for me - now with a 15 month old toddler - and thankfully my wife has insisted that we keep the Trev. Her thinking is that in ten years from now, I can't say to my son, "I used to have a fantastic sports car until you came along".

Fortunately (!) in my case it's my daily drive and we've recently replaced her car with a larger family car. I know that if I sell on my car, I'll never ever get another one again.

Gaffer

7,156 posts

306 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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Well there is always that car called the Cerbera...

Claire

lazyitus

Original Poster:

19,931 posts

295 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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Gaffer said:
Well there is always that car called the Cerbera...

Claire


I know and I've thought about it. Apart from the extra room, it just doesn't seem to make sense at the moment.

Besides, it'll cost me more and the idea is to be gaining money here, not the other way.

SGirl

7,924 posts

290 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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Been there, done that.

Sold my Griff in the end, waited a couple of months and then we bought the Cerbera you see in my profile. I think it's fair to say we've never looked back...


>> Edited by SGirl on Monday 1st August 14:24

yellow peril

5,131 posts

301 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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Gaffer said:
Well there is always that car called the Cerbera...

Claire



True....but they are expensive to run if they are looked after properly......

Thing is, apart from having a bit of cash free what have you achieved by selling the Griff for a Wedge or an 'S'.....still only two seats....and if you don't buy right you could be selling a 'sorted' and 'known' TVR for one that may cause you some financial grief.

Your baby is tiny...taking a huge part timewise in your life at the mo.....it's sometimes difficult to see beyond that.

Lots of Mid Essex peeps attend in two cars, mum and babe in one, dad in the TVR and lots look forward to having family /friends babysit so they can both enjoy a run in the TVR.

Whilst you have doubt....don't.....
Could be that in a few months you will be sure of what you want and what you can afford.....

All IMO of course....

Congratulations on your new son......mine was 25 yesterday.....Jeez..I don't know where the years have gone!!!

YP



>> Edited by yellow peril on Monday 1st August 13:47

Wildfire

9,948 posts

281 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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What you need to do is to get him used to the fast cars at an early age, that way he'll be a petrolhead when he gets older and then buys a Tiv at the first oppourtunity. Then you can take full advantage of that.

Being 24 and having had Tivs for 2 almost 3 years now, my father is more than happy to borrow the car every now and then.

Anyhow on a more serious note. Depends on whether the wife is happy for you to disappear off on your own with the Tiv every now and then.

This is why kids =

gbbird

5,197 posts

273 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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The answer to your sleepless nights is simple, and can be expressed in the following mathematical equation -

-SG + BC = HF

(where SG = Sell Griff, BC = Buy Cerbera, and HF = Happy Families)

>> Edited by gbbird on Monday 1st August 14:28

mslater

37 posts

268 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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Keep it. I sold my first Chimaera in the same situation - against the wifes advice - and a year later ended up buying another one as I missed it so much.

My solution was a Ford Mondeo for everyday (cheap as chips to buy and run) and the Tiv for sunny days and weekends (keeps the running costs down).

Regards M

lazyitus

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19,931 posts

295 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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I do have an Audi A4 for everyday use and the wife has a Mini Cooper, so transport is not the problem.

The missus knows how much I'd miss the Griff and has told me to keep it. I think she knows that I'd sulk and cry more than the baby.

>> Edited by lazyitus on Monday 1st August 14:36

.Mark

11,104 posts

305 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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eBay the kid.

jonathant

880 posts

313 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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lazyitus said:

The missus knows how much I'd miss the Griff and has told me to keep it.


In that case you've got to keep it. You'll hopefully find that in a few months time, when your child is older, you'll have a little more time in hand to play. The first few months *are* the hardest.

lazyitus

Original Poster:

19,931 posts

295 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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.Mark said:
eBay the kid.



I would but I'm unsure which category to put him in.


jonathant said:

In that case you've got to keep it. You'll hopefully find that in a few months time, when your child is older, you'll have a little more time in hand to play. The first few months *are* the hardest.



I'm sure you're right.

>> Edited by lazyitus on Monday 1st August 15:27

V8Smith

3,510 posts

282 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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Buy a V8S all the noise and speed of the Griff its more fun to drive and you would have some money on the bank???

I bought an S when we had a child (having got rid of a new porker) I wanted a Griff and bought the S as a stop gap until I found a good Griff (I still love the Griff shape) until I drove a V8S! If its an occasional car you are after the V8S is much more fun than the Griff, drive one....!

The V6 S is also worth a look as the S2 I had was great too.

IMHO

Mike

morebeanz

3,283 posts

265 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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I know you want to pull some money out of the car, but buying the Cerb was the best thing I ever did. I now have a five year old and a two year old who come out to play with me!

Both of them sit there either shouting "Faster, Daddy, faster!" or "Brrrrrrrmmmmmmmmm!" - I have truly never been happier with THAT decision!

pzero64

2,147 posts

270 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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lazyitus said:
Can it be that I'm really considering selling the Griff?

I think you’re just over tired. It will pass.

jaker

3,950 posts

298 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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another alternative would be to sell the TVR and buy another fun car, but one with 4 seats...

E.g:

BMW E36 M3
Impreza
Integra type R


These 3 should save you a couple of quid and allow the whole family to join in the fun. It's currently the way my thoughts are headed. I have a 2 seater BMW that just isnt getting used since the arrival of our baby...

wilko100100

18 posts

254 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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I just Picked up my Chimaera at the weekend, has been a dream for 10 years! I was driving a BMW 535 Sport, plenty of power and good fun for a big car but it's not a TVR! I was looking at originally spending 15k but in the end spent 8.5k on a 95 chim. i have an 11 month old and it's much much easier now, would have not had much time in the first few months but it does get easier! I'm selling the BMW and buying a cheap golf as an everyday car, use the TVR a couple of times per week and hopefully save some cash on running costs by only doing 6k miles per year so one service per year etc etc. Luckily the car i got has just been serviced, 4 new tyres, years tax and MOT so fingers crossed nothing too much to spend on it over the next year. Maybe buy a cheaper one if it's the cash you're worried about?



lazyitus

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19,931 posts

295 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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jaker said:
another alternative would be to sell the TVR and buy another fun car, but one with 4 seats...


You're not helping.

UncleDave

7,155 posts

260 months

Monday 1st August 2005
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For the money aspect of things.... don't think of it as losing out of cash if you don't sell the Griff... think of it as breaking even.

And now considering that comment, your Griff hasn't cost you a penny so you can buy a Family Car

The theory works! I think.

Dave.

(Or you could think of it along the lines of the hours of enjoyment the car has provided you with, then put her on eBay for 99p, plus £1 for every hour. That way it will never sell.. who would buy a Griff for £1m? )